VICTORY OVER MARITAL DELAY

EXHORTATION 

  1. GOD ORDAINED MARRIAGE
  • Gen. 2 v 18 – 25

v.18 “And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.”

 v.19 “And out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof.”

 v.20 “And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.”

 v.21 “And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof”

 v.22 “And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.”

 v.23 “And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.”

 v.24 “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.”

 v.25 “And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.”

  • Eccl. 4 v 9 – 10

v.9 “Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.

 v.10 “For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.”

  • Matt. 19 v 4 & 5

v.4 “And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,”

v.5 “And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?”

  • Being a single is not a sin and not a condition of hopelessness.
  • It is naturally a stage that precedes marriage.
  • It is a stage that is ordained by God and it is meant to be adorable and eventful in the eyes of God. 
  • However, it is not part of the package that anyone should remain single through a lifetime, it is expected that one should get married to the opposite sex within a particular age range (especially for the female gender).
  • “Therefore shall a mall leave his father and his mother and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh” Gen. 2 v 24.
  1. GOD WANTS YOU TO BE FRUITFUL 
  • Gen. 1 v 28

“And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.” 

  • One of the reasons for marriage is procreation for the purpose of replenishing the earth. 1 v 28 “And God blessed them, and God said unto them, be fruitful, and multiply and replenish the earth, and subdue it.  And have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth”.
  • It is disturbing that this scripture is not really manifesting in the lives of many singles – no man or woman to cleave to.
  • Many beautiful and available ladies are battling with this issue of getting someone to marry; some cases are as bad as not even getting someone to ask for a relationship not to talk of marriage.
  • Some get so desperate that they end up in the wrong hands and get their destinies messed up and truncated.
  1. SELF EXAMINATION 
  • Jeremiah 8 v 22

“Is there no balm in Gilead; is there no physician there? why then is not the health of the daughter of my people recovered?”

  • Jer. 5 v 25

“Your iniquities have turned away these things, and your sins have withholden good things from you.”

  • So many things could be responsible for this marital delay. Some are spiritual and some physical or emotional.
  • It is important to carry out some investigations through self-examination to determine if it is an attack from the enemies or a self-inflicted battle.
  • After this, it will be necessary to embark on proper deliverance prayers accordingly to remove the reproach of marital delay.
  • Please use the guide below to conduct a self-examination. As you pray the prayers thereafter the Lord will locate you maritally in Jesus name.
  • While waiting for God to answer, may I suggest that you do something meaningful with your life, something that will add value to your person and your life, remember, nobody want a liability for a partner. Be engaged productively.
  1. Life Style. Is your lifestyle okay.
  2. Mode of Dressing – Don’t overdress / stop attire of Harlots – Prov. 7 v 10   “And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtill of heart.”
  3. Arrogance / Pride / High taste. Don’t despise small beginnings. Job 8 v 7
  4. Your way of living/Lifestyle is chasing men/ ladies away.
  5. Your being hooked on
    • Alcohol / Smoke / Sex / Masturbation/Drugs/Clubbing/Gambling.
  6. Seeking Help in Egypt – Isa. 31 v1 – 5.
  7. Wearing demonic materials about
    • Ankle chain
    • Rings (Polluted)
    • 5 earrings at a time
    • Satanic waist beads
    • Artificial Nails/ Eyelids/Dedicated Human hairs from strange shrines.
    • Wearing ornaments of snakes /Scorpions/demonic symbols.
  1. Bad Hygiene / Body and mouth
    • Use nice perfume prayed upon.
    • Check the Bottle label well
    • Shave your armpit hairs
  1. Inability to smile
    • Don’t be bony. Don’t scare prospective men away.
  1. Watch your stature. Your wellness is a factor.

–   Go to the Gym to trim down (work on yourself) 

  1. Don’t switch off your mind off marriage or recalling bad marital failures.
  2. Rushing men into marriage, don’t be too desperate.
  3. Live – in – lovers don’t end up well.
  4. Sleeping with their Boss at work and contractors.
  5. Sexual vices – Sex before marriage, Lesbianism, Homosexualism, Bestialism, Addicted Masturbation.

Rom. 1 v 26 – 28

v.26 “For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:

v.27 “And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet.”

v.28 “And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient”

  1. Availability – be available, don’t live in recluse, on dating sites only.
  2. Read literature about marriage, attend seminars.
  3. 1 Cor. 15 v 33 – Beware of the company that you keep

“Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.”

  1. Stop comparing yourself with others.  Avoid people with negative energy.
  2. Balance Career and Marital pursuit
  3. Serve God for who He is in your local assembly.
  • Repent and ask for forgiveness in anyway you have offended God.
  1. SYMPTOMS TO DEAL WITH IN PRAYERS
  • Acts 2 v 21

“And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved.”

  • Isa 50 v 7

“For the Lord GOD will help me; therefore shall I not be confounded: therefore have I set my face like a flint, and I know that I shall not be ashamed.”

  1. No proposal at all – hatred for men/women/marriage.
  2. Wrong set of people coming.
  3. Proposal and no follow up.
  4. Proposal and sudden withdrawal.
  5. Proposal and sudden disappearance.
  6. Proposal and turbulent relationship.
  7. Prospective spouse seeing a different face in the dream and on the Physical.
  8. Mysterious repelling odour, sudden hatred and avoidance.
  9. Whoever comes to you will start having problems with his work, health; finances etc. suffering loses, also having scandals.
  10. Spirit spouse punishing your earthly spouse, issuing warnings and threats.
  11. Seeing strange gifts in your home, money, jewelry etc.
  12. People having satanic opinions about you.
  13. Accusation of witchcrafty.
  14. Accusation of familiar spirits.
  15. Sudden change in body and figure you are not used to.
  16. Constant demonic pollution.
  17. Demonic Alteration of destiny.
  18. Soul-tie with the Spirit spouse.
  1. CAUSES OF SINGLE PARENTHOOD
  • Psalms 7 v 9

“Oh let the wickedness of the wicked come to an end; but establish the just: for the righteous God trieth the hearts and reins.”

  1. Husband’s death
  2. Youthful mistake
  3. Sexual libido
  4. Parental Conservative factor
  5. Disappointment too sudden
  6. Unbroken covenant
  7. Spirit spouse disturbance
  8. Carelessness
  9. Promise and fail spirit
  10. Curses, Spell, Jinxes
  11. Bad friends influences
  12. Stubbornness of Heart
  13. Breaking another woman’s house
  14. Harlotry & Prostitution
  15. Rudeness to a servant of God
  16. Negative Prayers
  17. Evil prophesies and Prediction
  18. Living with relatives
  19. Parents/Family members not wanting you to marry because of what they get from you.

PRAYERS

BREAKING THE YOKE OF MARITAL DELAY

  • Isaiah 10 v 27

“And it shall come to pass in that day, that his burden shall be taken away from off thy shoulder, and his yoke from off thy neck, and the yoke shall be destroyed because of the anointing.”

Songs:  1.  Holy Ghost fire, set me free.

  1. Break my yoke, break my yoke, Holy Ghost fire break my yoke.
  2. Deliver me, deliver me, deliver me O! Lord, by your power, by your fire
  3. There is power, there is power, there is power in the Blood of Jesus.
  4. Begin to plead the blood of Jesus upon your spirit, soul and body. Repent of all your sins and bad habits.
  5. Activities of Hell against my marital settlement, scatter by fire in Jesus name.
  6. Every self-battle raging against my marital settlement scatter by fire now in Jesus name.
  7. Bloodline battles antagonizing my marital settlement, scatter by fire in Jesus name.
  8. Battles from my past relationships resisting my marital settlement, scatter in Jesus name.
  9. Any soul tie, known and unknown to me, frustrating my marital settlement, break by fire in Jesus name.
  10. Strange anti-marriage marks, labels on me preventing my marital settlement, blood of Jesus, remove it in Jesus name.
  11. Protesting powers and voices campaigning against my marital settlement, be disgraced in Jesus name.
  12. Covenants of late marriage and marital failure affecting my settlement, break now in Jesus name.

10.Any dark embargo on my marital settlement, be lifted in Jesus name.

11.Any manipulation and bewitchment against my marital settlement, be     aborted in Jesus name.

12.Any evil padlock locking up my marital settlement, burn by fire in Jesus name.

13.Dream manipulation frustrating my marital settlement, be canceled in Jesus name.

14.Every contrary word of unless or except issued against my marital settlement, blood of Jesus, cancel them in Jesus name.

15.Monitoring powers, demonic observers assigned against my marital settlement, receive Holy Ghost fire in Jesus name.

16.Any unholy connection between my marital settlement and any spirit spouse, break by the Blood of Jesus in Jesus name.

17.Yoke of ………………….against my marital settlement, break by fire now in Jesus name.

  • No proposal at all – hatred for men/women/marriage.
  • Wrong set of people coming.
  • Proposal and no follow up.
  • Proposal and sudden withdrawal.
  • Proposal and sudden disappearance.
  • Proposal and turbulence relationship.
  • Prospective spouse seeing a different face in the dream and on the Physical.
  • Mysterious repelling odour.
  • Whoever comes to you will start having problems with his work, health; finances etc. suffering loses, also having scandals.
  • Spirit spouse punishing your earthly spouse, issuing warnings and threat.
  • Seeing strange gifts in your home, money, jewelry etc.
  • People having satanic opinions about you.
  • Accusing you of witchcrafty.
  • Accusing you of familiar spirits.
  • Sudden change in body and figure you are not used to.
  • Constant demonic pollution.
  • Demonic Alteration of destiny.
  • Soul-tie with the Spirit spouse.

18.According to Romans 4 v 17  “(As it is written, I have made thee a father of many nations,) before him whom he believed, even God, who quickeneth the dead, and calleth those things which be not as though they were.”

  • I call forth my marriage in Jesus name.
  • I call forth my ordained partner in Jesus name.
  • I call forth my future home and children in Jesus name.
  • I command my marital settlement door to open now in Jesus name.
  • I command my ordained partner to connect with me in Jesus name.
  • I silence every contention against my marital settlement in Jesus name.
  • I reject further delay in Jesus name.
  • I reject further manipulation in Jesus name.
  • I reject further frustration in Jesus name.
  • I reject further disappointment in Jesus name.
  • According to 1 Peter 5 v 10 “But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle you.”
  1. I declare and announce my marital settlement in the name of God the father, the son and the holy Ghost.

 Jesus is Lord!